MOST TOUCHING LINES BY A BOY WHOSE LOVE MARRYING TO SOMEONE ELSE:-
Aaj dulhan k lal jode me use uski sakhiyon ne sajaya hoga..
Meri jaan k gore hatho ko mehndi se rachaya hoga...
Bahut gehra chada hoga mehndi ka rang , us mehndi me usne mera naam bhi chupaya hoga...
Reh reh k ro padi hogi wo jab jab usko khyal mera aaya hoga...
Khud ko dekha hoga usne jab aaine me to aks mera b najar aaya hoga..
Lag rahi hogi bahut hi sundar wo,aaj dekhkar usko chand bhi sharmaya hoga....
Aaj meri jaan ne apne maa-baap ki izzat ko bachaya hoga....
Usne beti hone ka har farz nibhaya hoga.....
Majboor hogi sabse zyada wo sochta hu kis tarah usne khud ko samjhaya hoga.....
Apne hatho se mere khato ko jalaya hoga...
Khud ko majbut banakar usne hamari yado ko mitaya hoga...
Bhukhi hogi wo janta hu usne mere bina kuch nahi khaya hoga...
Kaise sambhala hoga apne aap ko jab usne khud ko fero ki aag me jalaya hoga......
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
THE DEEPER SIDE
THE DEEPER SIDE
The sufferings in our life come to bring a change in us. Sometimes pain and pressures are good as they change us. It is up on an individual what change he wants to see in himself. Whether he wants to live like a victim of circumstances always or come out of his sufferings. The tiger lies within himself. The waves can be used as a source of inspiration. They come down only to rise up again. The spokes of a rotating wheel gets down to bottom only to rise up again to the top. Problems never leave us the way they found us. They change us. They come to teach us a lesson-to stay still, calm and in control of ourselves. A life free of problems is like a mirage in the desert. We can’t let our hurts and breaking experiences of life to control our future. We should always act only to be a source of inspiration for our loved ones. A source of inspiration for our family, friends, society and if possible for this world. Just raise your standards. Keep on improving like a never ending cycle. Sometimes Attitude counts more than talent. Give the world the best you have got anyway. If we can’t solve our problems we should learn to manage them. Don’t give up though the pace can be slow but you never know, just another blow and you succeed. Doing something with our energy which takes us higher helps. As higher we go, the more energy sources become available to us. It is in our hands.
The sufferings in our life come to bring a change in us. Sometimes pain and pressures are good as they change us. It is up on an individual what change he wants to see in himself. Whether he wants to live like a victim of circumstances always or come out of his sufferings. The tiger lies within himself. The waves can be used as a source of inspiration. They come down only to rise up again. The spokes of a rotating wheel gets down to bottom only to rise up again to the top. Problems never leave us the way they found us. They change us. They come to teach us a lesson-to stay still, calm and in control of ourselves. A life free of problems is like a mirage in the desert. We can’t let our hurts and breaking experiences of life to control our future. We should always act only to be a source of inspiration for our loved ones. A source of inspiration for our family, friends, society and if possible for this world. Just raise your standards. Keep on improving like a never ending cycle. Sometimes Attitude counts more than talent. Give the world the best you have got anyway. If we can’t solve our problems we should learn to manage them. Don’t give up though the pace can be slow but you never know, just another blow and you succeed. Doing something with our energy which takes us higher helps. As higher we go, the more energy sources become available to us. It is in our hands.
Sunday, June 13, 2010
LOVE
What is LovE :-?
u think abt urself, get to knw urself, build urself up to b so strong that u are confident tht u can handle ur own life, tht u dont need any1, tht no1 can hurt u without ur permission, tht u are the master of ur own life, and thn, u meet some1… who makes u want to surrender all of urself, without hesitation, when u become ready to lay urself totally open in front of her, all of ur vulnerabilities, fears, dreams, weaknesses, wishes, ambitions and principles, things tht make u thnk and feel and wonder and laugh and cry, whn the tiniest of her unhappiness zoom straight inside ur heart, whn u feel like bringing the whole world at her feet, just to make her happy, whn u are ready to give her all the freedom and right over ur life, comfortable in the knowing tht the other persn is so strong that she wll honour u tht u hve opend up and wll never take advantage of ur openness..will care for u because she wants to, not because it’s supposed to be tht way, when adjustment doesn’t feel like adjustment, when u willingly make urself flexible for her sake, when the freedom betw u makes ur relationship stronger, when u both start feeln that u need each other, not because u lack something, but because of how much both of u enjoy being part of one another’s lives and both of u want to practically take it forward.....-:)
u think abt urself, get to knw urself, build urself up to b so strong that u are confident tht u can handle ur own life, tht u dont need any1, tht no1 can hurt u without ur permission, tht u are the master of ur own life, and thn, u meet some1… who makes u want to surrender all of urself, without hesitation, when u become ready to lay urself totally open in front of her, all of ur vulnerabilities, fears, dreams, weaknesses, wishes, ambitions and principles, things tht make u thnk and feel and wonder and laugh and cry, whn the tiniest of her unhappiness zoom straight inside ur heart, whn u feel like bringing the whole world at her feet, just to make her happy, whn u are ready to give her all the freedom and right over ur life, comfortable in the knowing tht the other persn is so strong that she wll honour u tht u hve opend up and wll never take advantage of ur openness..will care for u because she wants to, not because it’s supposed to be tht way, when adjustment doesn’t feel like adjustment, when u willingly make urself flexible for her sake, when the freedom betw u makes ur relationship stronger, when u both start feeln that u need each other, not because u lack something, but because of how much both of u enjoy being part of one another’s lives and both of u want to practically take it forward.....-:)
Saturday, June 12, 2010
BID ADIEU
The end has come or is it a beginning?? The vacations are about to be over in next few days and the epoch making days are over . Life is queer with its twists and turns. We all wanted to get this finished as soon as possible and now when the time has come, we want a little more of these moments…. Few more memories to carry with us……more stories to share.…..hear some more secrets ….memories that we are going to cherish for our lifetime, be it our stay at ET hostel, ragging, mess debacle, CSE-ECE matches(I still feel sorry for cse guys….record of 19-4…really pathetic with the kind of team they had…lollzz…:P),streets and bridges of haridwar, Jnanagni, Birthday parties ,BC sessions, one night stand before exams with a mug of coffee and discussion about latest movies, Taste of success and failures, those little rifts and fist between us, fear of backlogs and surprise results, our holiday trips, tears for love, adjusting for everything ……... A period that is not leaving us the way it found us…we may or may not realize this but the seed has been sowed….. we all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere.
I am sure we all must have learned some lessons from here…….to trust in our hopes and not in our hurts……to trust the sunshine…. Never allowing our problem to become an excuse……Giving life to things that are beautiful……
Moments for lifetime that have given us a little glimpse of what we are capable of….I m sure we all have lot more to deliver.
The opening paragraph of “A Tale of two cities” by Charles Dickens describes to me so well the last four years that we have all lived through and I dedicate this to the four years of our vacation at GURUKUL:-
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times;
It was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness;
It was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity;
It was the season of light, it was the season of darkness;
It was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair;
We had everything before us, we had nothing before us;
We were all going directly to Heaven, we were all going the other way."
I m gonna miss this place……
Thanks for reading…..BID ADIEU…-:)
I am sure we all must have learned some lessons from here…….to trust in our hopes and not in our hurts……to trust the sunshine…. Never allowing our problem to become an excuse……Giving life to things that are beautiful……
Moments for lifetime that have given us a little glimpse of what we are capable of….I m sure we all have lot more to deliver.
The opening paragraph of “A Tale of two cities” by Charles Dickens describes to me so well the last four years that we have all lived through and I dedicate this to the four years of our vacation at GURUKUL:-
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times;
It was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness;
It was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity;
It was the season of light, it was the season of darkness;
It was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair;
We had everything before us, we had nothing before us;
We were all going directly to Heaven, we were all going the other way."
I m gonna miss this place……
Thanks for reading…..BID ADIEU…-:)
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
EDUCATED ILLITERATES-Welcome To the caste country
EDUCATED ILLITERATES-Welcome To the caste country
while travelling in India It will not be a matter of big surprise if someone asks you ashamefully about your caste in a bus,rail or anywhere and why should be they ashamed of this question, If our chosen democratic leaders are not. We want to be a world power, but our politicians will not let that happen. And the biggerst tragedy is that a number of intellectuals are on their side digging holes for all of us to jump into. Instead of thinking citizenship, our democratically elected leaders are thinking caste and family. As citizens we do not need caste but we need development, growth, employment and clean air.Including Caste in the census clearly shows that caste will be the basis for social policy. The idea of the public is junked and the notion of caste, kin, clan and religion will rule the day.
Not only done with reservations , caste politicians are asking for control over marriage through the law. Now try explaining it to someone in love. Try enforcing it.The only way possible is terror.If this goes their way, marriage through choice will become another victim.
The most successful democracies have been forward looking.They create goals that are not framed by tradition,but by projects that look ahead and create bonds between citizens. The caste census and demands to control caste marriages by law represent double octane backwardness, though it is expressed in a democratic garb.
There has been no caste based census since 1931.The practice was discontinued as it was found to be “DIVISIVE”.
Sir Valentine Chirol , a distinguished journalist wrote in 1926 that”Hinduism could not build up a nation because the one vital structure which it did build up was the negation of everything that constitutes a nation.”
The “vital structure” chirol alluded to was caste.Even after sixty years of independence the depths of india’s “vital structure” have been unmoved.Chirol was right and we may as well acknowledge it.
Apart from the modernisation there is the other india , where your identity is defined not by your profession or your talent but by your caste.Welcome to the caste country. Where the only purpose of education for most of the youths have been reduced to obtaining degrees and making money rather than developing an independent thinking and understanding.
Caste is the mark of an orthodox society,serves no positive purpose, and is impediment to economic development.
Instead of trying to identify people by their caste, it would make more sense for the census to identify people’s economic status.Surely BPLs are more deserving of affirmative action and positive discrimination.But unfortunately they don’t represent a captive vote bank for our so called leaders.caste is not your destiny; it is your vote bank influence.A caste-based census is a retrograde move.
while travelling in India It will not be a matter of big surprise if someone asks you ashamefully about your caste in a bus,rail or anywhere and why should be they ashamed of this question, If our chosen democratic leaders are not. We want to be a world power, but our politicians will not let that happen. And the biggerst tragedy is that a number of intellectuals are on their side digging holes for all of us to jump into. Instead of thinking citizenship, our democratically elected leaders are thinking caste and family. As citizens we do not need caste but we need development, growth, employment and clean air.Including Caste in the census clearly shows that caste will be the basis for social policy. The idea of the public is junked and the notion of caste, kin, clan and religion will rule the day.
Not only done with reservations , caste politicians are asking for control over marriage through the law. Now try explaining it to someone in love. Try enforcing it.The only way possible is terror.If this goes their way, marriage through choice will become another victim.
The most successful democracies have been forward looking.They create goals that are not framed by tradition,but by projects that look ahead and create bonds between citizens. The caste census and demands to control caste marriages by law represent double octane backwardness, though it is expressed in a democratic garb.
There has been no caste based census since 1931.The practice was discontinued as it was found to be “DIVISIVE”.
Sir Valentine Chirol , a distinguished journalist wrote in 1926 that”Hinduism could not build up a nation because the one vital structure which it did build up was the negation of everything that constitutes a nation.”
The “vital structure” chirol alluded to was caste.Even after sixty years of independence the depths of india’s “vital structure” have been unmoved.Chirol was right and we may as well acknowledge it.
Apart from the modernisation there is the other india , where your identity is defined not by your profession or your talent but by your caste.Welcome to the caste country. Where the only purpose of education for most of the youths have been reduced to obtaining degrees and making money rather than developing an independent thinking and understanding.
Caste is the mark of an orthodox society,serves no positive purpose, and is impediment to economic development.
Instead of trying to identify people by their caste, it would make more sense for the census to identify people’s economic status.Surely BPLs are more deserving of affirmative action and positive discrimination.But unfortunately they don’t represent a captive vote bank for our so called leaders.caste is not your destiny; it is your vote bank influence.A caste-based census is a retrograde move.
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